For all the Christians, we human beings were created by God, man or woman. So if we wish to celebrate the importance of either Fathers Day or Mothers Day, we should celebrate the Greatness of our God first.
To most of the non-Christians, such a saying is far far beyond the understanding of the real life experience. If you consider a mother is to be respected, loved and protected, you will never consider whether she is the daughter of God because in this way, a mother will become very unreal and untouchable.
So in this article, we will talk about all the mothers living in as common as our real life. There is nothing to do with Christinanity.
We have Fathers Day and Mothers Day to celebrate every year. Personally, a Mothers Day is much much more deserved to be memorised and celebrated. Why?
When a girl has come to her puberty, she has started to undergo monthly pain and suffering monthly when her period has come. For most of the males, perhaps they will never know or understand the pain or suffering a girl is facing when she has her period because they never have such experience. It is sometimes so unbearable to some young girls that they have to take pain killer such as Panadine or the other pain killer to stop their severe discomfort. Some even have to be sent to hospital under pain treatments.
At this stage, the females has started to experience the pain that no any male will understand. Worse still, the girls will face unexpected embarrassment when their menstruations suddenly come, especially when they are in the public, offices or schools. The situations will become even more unbearable when they are experiencing sudden pain.
All the above is just to pinpoint the greatness of a female before she has become a mother because she has to face some sort of unpleasant physical discomfort and suffering which the males will never experience or understand.
By the time the mature girls are old enough to get married, they surely will enjoy countless sweet menmories in life wheh they have their new life with their husbands. Soon they will have children and will start a new page of life.
It is at this time that the females demomstrate their greatness to the full exentence.
At the very early stage of their pregnancy, they will usually undergo some sort of discomfort such as loss of appetite, vomitting and tireness, not to memtion they will be advised not to have love making during this period for fear of causing any harm to the embryo. Then when time goes by, their bodies and beauties will be disfigured to a certain extreme that some young mothers even cry for having losing their orginal beauties and beatiful figures. Their noses will become a bit larger with pale red noses, a much bigger waist which will disfigure their orignal girlish beauties, their faces will swell up and their legs will be covered with green blood veins due to the carrying of some extra weight of a baby in their wombs.
All these will cause some sort of physical discomfort and worse still some psychological harm to the pregnant mothers, especially those who are regarding physical beauties as their first priorities. They may have nightmares and have hotter tempers or may have disputes and uncontrollable arguments with their husbands. The problems will become more serious if they live together with their mothers-in-law who may grumble the laziness of them. Such problems may be solved if they are well protected by their beloved husbands, but they will be in deep depression if their husbands stand on the side of their mothers. Such type of mothers will become lonely, helpless, aimless and strong feeling of being isolated and deserted. Tragically, some will commit suicide when they regard such types of life, having carrying an unborn baby and being so lonely and unprotected, meaningless and pointless.
Of course, most of the mothers are born with natural love which has motivated them to take up the holy spirit of rearing their next generations, at whatever cost, pain and suffering they will or have to face or undergo.
Will you be touched, as a man, when you see your wife have to undergo such physical and psychological discomfort and pain when she has become pregnant? Will you love her more when you reflect the greatness in carrying an unborn baby weighing 7 - 9 pounds before they give birth? Will you think of some ways to celebrate such an important date - the Mothers Day - as a symbol of thankfulness to the greatness of your wife in carrying the unborn baby for 10 months? Will you consider to give greater warmth, love and support to your wife during this 10 months pregnancy while you, as free and happy as a morning bird fooling around places you wish to go? Yes, yes, you must!
Finally, the time has come when the pregnant mothers are going to give new born babies. It is a battle, a great great battle between life and death. Of course, as a husband, you will sense the fear, worries and strong sense of uncertainties inwardly because you cannot predict what the final situations will be. But as your wife, she has much much greater psychological burdens and fears than you. She is in deep worries of the safety of the unborn baby. Will it be a natural birth or does it need any special procedures, such as scissoring? Thanks to the development of new medical technology, to-days child birth is much well protected and safeguarded than the previous days during which the pregnant mothers had to face series of physical pain and psychological conflicts.
Now comes the delivery of the new born baby. The husbands can only sense the pain, the painful groanings and the physical struggling in dilivering their baby. But this is only a feeling on the part of the bushand. For the mother, the pain and suffering are beyond verbal descriptions. Some mothers even have difficulties in delivering the babies and have to gasp for air and oxygen, some will face the threats of having their badies die in the middle of delivery when the babies are either have their heads still inside the mothers' body or the badies are in the middle of the vaginas. This is a battle of life and death. This is a matter of chasing after time, second by second. Any mistake will be fatal and cause countless pain and sufferings to all the members of the family.
Greatness to the mother. Deep respect to the mother. Beautiful worship to the mother. Wonderful merits to the mother. It is her dedications to love, her devotions to give birth to a new baby to her beloved family, it is her painful sacrifice on behalf of the happiness of the whole family, it is her readiness to hold up the holy lights of motherhood that have brightened the horizons of all the wonderful mothers around the world.
During this Mothers Day, we would like to give our deepest and greatest respects and appreciations to the holy spirits and the sacrifice to give born of new babies when they, as females, have to undergo a long parths of pain and suffernings from girlhood with period pains and motherhood with pains in delivering the babies.
Here come our heartfelt salutes to our mothers in the Mothers Day.
(A special regard to our Moderator - dycrystal. Wish your mother has recovered well and have a Happy Mothers Day.)